2.2 Family and Extended Family

Aboriginal families come in all shapes and sizes. We have our immediate family, extended family, and community. Our families are interlinked over the generations through relationships, marriages and children.  

Our children are our future and so many Aboriginal communities across the nation are striving to grow up Aboriginal kids who are strong in their culture and identity, are learning about their culture and family history, and are experiencing wonderful connections with their Elders. Our local community is no different.

From our local experience, when Aboriginal kids grow up strong in their culture, are provided with a range of equal opportunities in education, sport, arts, gain access to the health services they need, and are learning about healthy lifestyles, nutrition, and the importance of family, community and culture, they are able to dream and believe that they can be anything they want to be and live well-balanced lives. 

When they experience a supportive, nurturing, encouraging family environment, anything is possible. We see many examples of this happening within our local Aboriginal community of the Goulburn Valley and across the nation.

Challenges:

Sadly, there are significant challenges affecting the lives of Aboriginal people today. The social determinants of health as discussed in Module One are a clear indication of just how broadly our lives, and therefore our health and wellbeing, are affected. A wide range of health and wellbeing factors are impacting Aboriginal people across Yorta Yorta country and surrounding areas including:

  • chronic illness, 
  • the high number of our kids in out of home care in this region and across Victoria; 
  • homelessness, 
  • incarceration rates, 
  • family and lateral violence, 
  • racism and poor life expectancy

These are all impacting our families around the nation, across the state and locally.  While these are not unique to Aboriginal community, they are more prevalent and result in significantly poorer health, quality of life and life expectancy of Aboriginal people today.  

The way that we as Aboriginal people and families understand, express and maintain our family connections varies across communities, families and individuals. Living on our Ancestral lands does not automatically mean people are ‘connected’. This depends on their life experience and the opportunities they have had for deeper connections. In fact, many people are now disconnected and living in isolation. They may be constantly unwell but may rarely visit a health service due to social isolation, lack of access, racism and cultural safety issues.

When considering Aboriginal families specifically and their experience of dispossession, colonisation and stolen generations (discussed in Module 1), it is easy to see how today, there are some broken, disconnected families, raising children and young people who are also disconnected from culture and community – and so the cycle goes on. Sadly, they are not only facing the struggles of contemporary life, but also varying levels of current and/or intergenerational — grief, loss and trauma.

Actions:

Aboriginal communities strive today to strengthen and maintain their family connections. It is our way. Strategies include:

  • Many services within ACCHOs working to address the range of issues that Aboriginal people may be facing today through preventive programs, and a range of services across the justice, child and family, health, aged care and disability and housing services.  All strive to work collaboratively to enhance the health of individuals, their social connections, build stronger families and therefore improve health and wellbeing holistically.
  • Where specific health concerns are evident, Aboriginal people have a choice of turning to ACCHO or mainstream services where culturally safe care is available.  
  • Traditional owner groups working with family groups to support them to meet, protect their cultural heritage, discuss their goals for strengthening their families, and for maintaining their culture and connections.